Like any 26-year-old, Cynthia Ong juggles work and family and has a popular TikTok account called “tiredgenzmom”. But behind her daily updates of playing with her children and husband is a story of extraordinary resilience.
At age seven, Cynthia's life was upended by her parents' sudden divorce. Even though she was put in the care of her mother, she soon found herself in a stranger’s home.
For the next year, she struggled with neglect and eventually moved back to live with her mother. But things were hardly better.
Ms Cynthia Ong, 26, pictured with her two sons who are four and three years old.
Having grown up deeply lonely and without someone to love her, Cynthia decided she would be a mother, in every way her own mother was not.
She met her husband at age 17 and after dating for five years, they decided to marry and have children.
Now with two little boys of her own, and a third one on the way, the 26-year-old works tirelessly to provide them with the love and stability she once lacked.
What would she tell that once little girl of seven?
Ms Cynthia Ong looking at drawings done by her sons.
This podcast is a special selection of CNA938’s A Letter to Myself – a show helmed by presenter Joel Chua. In this weekly podcast, Joel speaks to people from all walks of life who have extraordinary life lessons to share.
If you know someone who has a good story to share that can inspire listeners, please write to cnapodcasts [at] mediacorp.com.sg.
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At age seven, Cynthia's life was upended by her parents' sudden divorce. Even though she was put in the care of her mother, she soon found herself in a stranger’s home.
For the next year, she struggled with neglect and eventually moved back to live with her mother. But things were hardly better.
Every time I sleep, I don't see her, and every time I wake up, she's sleeping. I just lived my life like this, from eight to 13 years.

Ms Cynthia Ong, 26, pictured with her two sons who are four and three years old.
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Having grown up deeply lonely and without someone to love her, Cynthia decided she would be a mother, in every way her own mother was not.
She met her husband at age 17 and after dating for five years, they decided to marry and have children.
Now with two little boys of her own, and a third one on the way, the 26-year-old works tirelessly to provide them with the love and stability she once lacked.
What would she tell that once little girl of seven?
Listen to Cynthia’s story on A Letter to Myself:

Ms Cynthia Ong looking at drawings done by her sons.
This podcast is a special selection of CNA938’s A Letter to Myself – a show helmed by presenter Joel Chua. In this weekly podcast, Joel speaks to people from all walks of life who have extraordinary life lessons to share.
If you know someone who has a good story to share that can inspire listeners, please write to cnapodcasts [at] mediacorp.com.sg.
Source: CNA/ta
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